Chicago Marathon: Bereaved Families Honor Loved Ones Through Running

The Chicago Marathon took place today, featuring a poignant team from OneFamily, an organization dedicated to supporting bereaved families and victims of terrorism. This group, comprising around 25 bereaved family members—including parents, widows, and siblings of fallen soldiers and terror victims—joined other runners to honor those who have been lost. For these participants, the 42.2 kilometers through Chicago represent more than just a physical challenge; each runner carries a personal story and a cherished memory as they traverse the course.

The team departed from Israel on October 7, a date that carries profound significance as it marks three years since a devastating terrorist attack. This timing adds a layer of meaning to their journey, intertwining remembrance and resilience. Running in one of the world's largest marathons allows these individuals to share their stories and keep the memories of their loved ones alive in a vibrant community setting.

Gil Pazi, father of Yogev Pazi, who was killed in action in northern Gaza in November 2024, expressed that participating in the marathon is a way to continue his son's legacy. Yogev had spent a year volunteering in Chicago, forging connections within the local Jewish community that lasted long after his return to Israel. "The moment I saw that it said Chicago, I knew I was signing up," Gil reflected, highlighting the emotional pull of the event.

Building Community Through Shared Grief

Training for the marathon began five months prior, involving group sessions, long-distance runs, and both physical and mental preparation. Over these months, the team has grown into a close-knit community, where shared experiences of loss foster deep connections among the runners. They have created a supportive environment where participants can openly discuss their grief while also celebrating their achievements together.

Across the Line

Moshe Saville, CEO of OneFamily, noted that this group transcends a typical running team. "Behind every participant is a story of loss and longing, but throughout the months of training, we also saw the tremendous strength of the bonds that developed between them," he said. The camaraderie formed in this setting has been a source of strength for many, as they navigate their personal journeys of healing.

"Running does not erase loss," Saville added, "but it makes it possible to find new strength, set goals, and feel that it is possible to move forward without leaving the memory behind." The choice to embark on this journey specifically on October 7 and arrive together at the starting line in Chicago symbolizes the enduring nature of life alongside remembrance, showcasing the power of community support in the face of adversity.